Thursday, November 13, 2008

co-admission

every argument arises from an interaction consisting of at least two people. you cannot be actively arguing with yourself, technically speaking. hence, there is always the flip side of the picture that one party fails to see - the side which if comprehended, will lead to mutual understanding instead.

the picture says it well enough. what cannot be seen cannot be judged, until it is revealed.there will always be hidden circumstances, unsaid feelings, unknown contexts - which is why people argue.

no one can be totally absolved of blame if they are a part of an argument.
and that is only fair.

so perhaps all i wanted was a co-admission of guilt.
that there was some wrong done too on your part.
apologising but not knowing what you are apologising for... how do you think that sounds?

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